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Ramadan Reminders

With Ramadan starting literally just right around the corner, it’s important to take a minute to think about this time. I received an email (all credit goes to the original writer) entitled “What Everyone Should Know About Ramadan” and I wanted to share parts of it now before we start striving to do our best during this blessed month.

First off, Fasting in Ramadan is obligatory for every sane, healthy, and mature Muslim. This means that we must fast unless we are not yet reached puberty or we are in an ill state either mentally or physically. We must be able to mentally understand fasting and be able to physically carry out the fast without putting ourselves in harm in order for it to be a valid fast. To deny the obligation of fasting during this time is an act of Kufr. Allah (SWT) says in Surah Baqara Ayah 183 “Fasting has been prescribed upon you as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may attain Taqwah”. As long as we meet the conditions above so that we are mentally and physically sound to fast, we must fast during this month of Ramadan.

----Preparation----
* We need to learn the rules and regulations of fasting such as the times when we can break our fast, what we can and cannot do during fasting hours, and what to do in case we make a mistake during this time.
* We should begin this month with a clean slate: Make Tawba (sincere repentance) for the sins we commit on a daily basis.
* Make du’aa that Allah (swt) helps us fast properly and correctly.
* Begin this month with a firm intention to follow the example of the Prophet (SAW) by fasting not only with the stomach and the private parts, but with the tongue, the hand, etc.
* Set realistic and reachable goals to accomplish each day such as give $5 in sadaqah, read a certain number of pages of Qur’an, improve our character, etc.
* Remember that every night, Allah Descends from His Throne (in a manner that befits His Majesty), extends His Hand, and asks who will turn to Him in repentance. Take advantage of this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
* If someone is missing fasts and is able to make them up (due to sickness, traveling, pregnancy, menstruation, post-natal bleeding.. etc) then they must make them up before the next Ramadan. Those without a valid reason must make the fasts up ASAP. Some scholars also say they must offer Kaffaarah (expiation) for every day that they missed but some don’t agree that it’s necessary.

----Merits and Virtues of Ramadan----
* The gates of Hell are shut, the devils are chained, and the gates of Heaven are open wide.
* Baa bar-Rayyaan is a gate of Jannah reserved specially for those who fast.
* Fasting is a form of expiation for minor sins

----REMEMBER----
* If someone tries to pick a fight with you, say “Ana saa’im” (I’m fasting). This is a reminder to yourself, and a warning to the other person.
* Make every pang of hunger a reminder to yourself to be thankful to Allah, to turn to Him in repentance, to beg of His Mercy for you and your fellow brothers and sisters in Islam.

*HADITH QUDSI: “Fasting is for Me, and I give the reward for it. (A man) gives up his sexual desires, his food and his drink for My Sake. Fasting is like a shield, and he who fasts has two joys: joy when he breaks his fast, and joy when he meets his Lord. The change in the breath of the mouth of he who fasts is better in Allah's estimation than the smell of musk.”

Salah Videos

One of the most important issues that Muslims face in their faith is the topic of Prayer. Its importance can be seen in the fact that it is the 2^nd of the 5 pillars of Islam. Prayer isn’t just saying a few words, bowing your head, or moving your body. It’s a connection to your creator with which you show your appreciation and submission to him. In Surah Al-Fatiha, which is used in every rakah of prayer, we find the ayah, “Iyyaka na3budu wa iyyaka nasta3een”. This translates to “It is you (Allah) we worship and it is you (Allah) we seek help from”. Such ayahs show that prayer holds special meaning beyond words and bowing.

For new Muslims, prayer can be more of a difficult task than many may think. For one, it’s in a language that is foreign to most of us, and for two, it’s a different way of praying than we are used to. The bigger issue however is number one. The majority of new Muslims don’t speak Arabic. While we are learning to pray, it will take a long time for us to be able to comprehend what we are saying along with us saying it. We can memorize the words, but it takes some time to be able to put those words with the meaning in a way that we can understand what we are saying. This can be very discouraging, but in time it will become easy, Insha’Allah.

With Ramadan approaching, we should pay extra attention to our prayers. With our deeds more important than ever, this is a time which should be utilized to its fullest. The following videos (part 1 and part 2) were shared with me from someone who wanted to help me with my prayers (Thank You Mohamed), and I hope that Insha’Allah this might help someone as well. These videos describe The Prophet’s (SAW) prayer.

May Allah guide us all with light and increase our desire and need for knowledge, Ameen.

Where Do We Start?

The same question arises with both Muslims and Non-Muslims when wanting to learn about Islam; “where do I start?” This question is one that everyone will have a different answer for. One answer is no more than another, but from experience I have found the best answer is the beginning. No matter how much we think we know, most of the time we are missing basics. So, how about we go back to the beginning and start there? Start from the very first topic that we should learn, “What is Islam?”, and build from there. In order to truly understand our religion, we must understand the very basics and fundamentals of it. We must go back into our brains and learn the same things as children do. We have to learn 1,2,3 before we can learn 10. I can honestly say that at times it has been embarrassing to admit that I need to act like a child sometimes in order to learn what I need to, but the truth is that once we can put that embarrassment aside, we can learn more than we thought we could.

Once we have learned and understood the fundamentals we can delve deeper into more issues. But the one thing we must remember is that we need to understand the things we learn so that we can implement them into our lives. If we learn truth but don’t act on it, we are nothing but ignorant hypocrites. If we use what we know in our lives, we improve ourselves. Once we know something small we can expand that knowledge until we are experts in that area. Who wouldn’t want to know all they can about their religion and way of life? Allah (swt) says “And of men and beasts and cattle are various species of it likewise; those of His servants only who are possessed of knowledge fear Allah; surely Allah is Mighty, Forgiving” (Surah Fatir: Ayah 28). “'Whoever walks in the path to seek knowledge, Allah will make the path to paradise easy for him” [Muslim]. If knowledge is held with such a high esteem in Islam, then why shouldn’t we pursue such a thing that the Creator of this Universe will forgive our sins for?

One advantage which New Muslims have is that we learn from the basics. We aren’t raised in Islam, so we have to learn everything from the beginning. If we were raised by Muslim parents, the basics would had been introduced to us early on and we would had been very likely to forget many of them. Sometimes people who are newer to Islam are able to separate culture and religion which is hard to do at times. We get to see this beautiful religion through fresh eyes. It’s not a bad thing that we come into Islam at a later age. In some ways, it’s a blessing because we are more comprehensive and more thankful of the knowledge which we receive. So the answer to where do we start is simple, start at the beginning of Allah’s gift to us. Let’s all go back to the basics and deepen our knowledge from there.

Expectations

One of the biggest mistakes that new Muslims tend to make is to have unrealistic expectations. We have found this amazing religion which we want to follow with all our heart. We decide to leave everything that we've known our whole lives to live this new life as a Muslim. It is unknown territory which can be very difficult, especially if we go through it alone. Many people will desert their own family when their family members accept Islam. This leaves the new Muslims all alone without the support that they need. What makes it worse is that it's often very hard to find the right support from their community. This leads to a lot of issues and problems.

I think one of the biggest problems that arise is the issue of high expectations. We have changed our life which is usually in a very unfamiliar manner than what we are used to. Once we have tasted this new way of life, we want it all at once. We tend to leap too quickly into the matter of knowledge. Sometimes we compare ourselves with our fellow Muslims. We may be the same age as our sisters and brothers in Islam, but in reality we are newborns into this religion. We want to know everything that they know and we often forget that it's not how much we know, but how we use that knowledge in our lives. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "Convey from me even if one ayah (verse) for it may be that the one being informed will comprehend better that the one listening (at present)." (Al-Bukhari).

If we push ourselves to learn too quickly, we will either learn nothing or we will become discouraged. Allah (SWT) has made our religion not of hardships and barriers but of ease and encouragement. He has given us a complete way of life in Islam, not just a few rules or sayings. Islam circles every part of a Muslim’s life. It is what pushes us in our moral decisions, our choices, our family life, our personality, and our character. This cannot be learned all at once. Even if we study day and night for the rest of our lives, we will never learn it all. With this in mind, we can’t push ourselves so hard to learn that we forget why we are learning in the first place; to be closer to Allah (SWT) and to obey him. Aiming high is a good thing at times, but other times it can be harmful to our determination and our want to learn. The best thing we can do is figure out what we want to learn and why we want to learn it. Once that is known, then we should pace ourselves so that we aren’t just reading and studying instead of learning. Allah rewards for intention. Keep your intention pure and go from there. Don’t let your new way of life discourage you in the least. It’s a lot to deal with, but it’s possible as long as we have a drive pushing us to become good Muslims. As long as we have this desire to be the best we can, we will continue to grow in Islam. If we lose that drive, we will lose this beautiful way of life that Allah (SWT) has blessed us with.